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Dear Condor,
It sounds like it was a pretty rough conversation with your father. I know
that you were really wanting some answers, and what he said may or may not
have been what you were looking for. If you’re trying to find an enemy in
this situation, I hope that you can let go of your anger, and take each day
one step at a time. It’s not worth the stress it puts on your heart to hold
onto grudges like that. Believe me, I’ve been there. Think of it this way,
if you’ve had a good relationship with your dad up until this point, he must
be an okay guy. There should be no reason why you can’t forgive him for
whatever he did...however he was involved. Even if the whole separation
thing had been his idea instead, that was over three decades ago. But I
understand that your family situation was different from mine before, and is
different now, in more ways than one. In some ways, it’s been easier for me.
I no longer have the opportunity to ask my mom about it, but I also don’t
have the anxiety from anticipating her answers. I just hope that you two can
find a way past this, and maintain your strong relationship. If I could ask
you one thing, though, maybe you could serve as a sort of intermediary
between the two of us? I don’t know if I’ll ever want to call him
dad, but I think that he and I should probably get to know each other
either way. I mean, there’s this thing that I do where I moisten my eyeballs
one at a time, so it always looks like I’m winking. Normal people just
blink, I don’t really know why. Other people have noticed that I do this,
and think that it’s funny. There’s often a genetic component to those kinds
of tics. Mom never did anything like that, so I’ve always wondered where it
came from. On the other hand, if you don’t feel comfortable connecting him
with me, I understand. Just let me know, because I really am good either
way. I feel like this situation is more up to you. Really, no pressure.
Anyway, I have to get to a meeting, so I’ll talk to you in a couple weeks.
Wink wink,
Corinthia
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